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 Who is this service for?
Society labels people who seek extramarital liaisons as
being immoral, unable to sustain intimacy or dysfunctional in some
other way.
This is not necessarily the case at all. Many members of
'about lovers' indicate that they
have happy marriages and have no intention of breaking up their family
but need something else as well. There is a gap or emptiness in their
lives, which cannot be filled in their every day relationships.
What seems to be true often is that the affair is more
fun, lighter, and more erotic as the history and 'baggage' of a
marriage or long-term relationship, with all its resentments do not
weigh it down.
'about lovers' is for
married, attached or single professional people in South Africa. In the
case of those who are attached, confidentiality and discretion are
obviously critical issues, less so for the unattached, but for them it
is the 'no strings attached aspect'. |
 'It destroys one's nerves to be amiable every day to the
same human being'- Disraeli
'There's
a world of difference between antiseptic married sex and the wildly
erotic sex you have with someone new, especially when it can't
possibly lead to anything. You get all the best bits-the fun, the
laughter, the wining and dining-without having to get tangled up in
each other's lives."-A woman quoted in "How Adultery saved my
marriage"- The Star, June 26,2000. |
