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Why it's uniquely South African: The website was
started by Cherie Green, who operates out of her Sandton townhouse.
Green is in the business of hooking up wealthy, married men with
attractive, single women.
You'll know you're in percarious territory by the large picture
of a woman holding her fingers over her mouth and the text below it
that says: "A unique confidential service for single or married
people in South Africa wishing to have an affair or a discreet
encounter."
Yet what really makes this service unique is that all who are
involved have, apparently, no desire to pick up random partners at a
bar. Instead they want an official process that happens like a
business transaction.
And, all those who are interested have to do, is call or e-mail
Green, who will set up an obligation-free consultation. Once
you've signed up for a cost of R2850, you get a six month
membership, during which you can meet prospective lovers.
The crowd:As the website states,"happily
married people who plan to stay that way". Green also makes it clear
that her service is for "professional and executive people".
But she adds that the women who want her services must be aged 22-45
and shouldn't be looking for long-term commitment. The men must be 34
and older.
Why it's underground: If anyone finds out you're
on Green's books, you might get divorced and lose half your
assets. And, of course, extramarital affairs will always be frowned
upon in society's eyes. But a paragraph on the website tries
to refute this by stating, "Society labels people who seek
extramarital liaisons as being immoral, unable to sustain intimacy
or dysfunctional in some other way.
"This is not necessarily the case at
all. Many members of About Lovers indicate that they have happy
marriages and have no intention of breaking up their family, but
need something else as well. There is a gap or emptiness in their
lives, which cannot be filled in their everyday relationships."
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